Understanding anger plays a huge part in dissolving the addiction to this volatile emotion and the programming and conditioning that created it. Anger can become a protector of Vulnerability when it serves as a defense mechanism against perceived threats or injustices.
Patterns, addictions and conditioning of Anger is often established in childhood where the child perceives the people around them as unresponsive to their pleasure, pain or emotional needs. The child receives the message that they are in competition with these people in order to get their needs met. With a lack of validation, sense of belonging or emotional connection that feels safe, and an underdeveloped ability to fawn, the child learns the 'fight' response is the most effective approach to self preservation and getting their needs met, hence any attention, even if its negative yields an outcome.
For people who are quick to anger, it makes no sense to them to show their vulnerability or even allow themselves to be aware of it due to a deep sense of feeling unsafe. Therefore all that vulnerability, fear, perceived powerlessness and pain is hidden behind the anger and anger becomes the protector.
When Anger acts as the protector a link develops in the subconsciousness to self loyalty. Therefore anger is a form of enforcing boundaries in a world that doesn't care about their needs, wants or best interest. To not get angry feels like self betrayal. That sense of betrayal was established from very deep trauma wounding. They never want to feel that level of betrayal again and they would rather accept negative consequences from the destruction of their anger than to betray themselves.
Anger often arises spontaneously in response to a perceived threat or violation of boundaries.
By expressing anger, individuals may feel a temporary sense of strength, empowerment, or control over a situation that otherwise leaves them feeling exposed, powerless or vulnerable.
Anger can serve as a signal to others that personal boundaries have been crossed or violated
For some individuals, expressing anger may be more socially acceptable or less stigmatized than acknowledging and expressing vulnerability directly. Anger can therefore serve as a mask or defense mechanism to hide underlying feelings of fear, sadness, or hurt.
In this clearing with Sarah you will have the opportunity to explore and release deep seeded anger, rage, betrayal, pain, trauma, sadness, emotional neglect, feelings of rejection and shame, hatred, bitterness, addictions to lower emotions, fear of vulnerability and feeling unsafe. You will also have the opportunity to connect in with the inner child for deep healing and learn healthier ways to demonstrate self loyalty and personal boundaries.
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